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03:25, 2008-Sep-22
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Live at this moment, experience for now Village once say such a story of a fable:
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It means anything in the world has its dual character, can lose, and gain and loss relative, pass the imperial examinations, lose, have lose, take medicine like people, while curing the disease, the ones that have given somebody's body all sorts of are defeated by function, is endangering people's health too to a certain extent too. So we should understand: May not have, may not lose to lose either, the set thing has already become the fact, it is unable to change, the future gain and loss are still uncertain, then don't immerse in this kind of emotion swayed by considerations of gain or loss!, live at this moment, often experience it now! This is often said by us " Contentment brings happiness "
An American businessman was once at quay of a small fishing village on the seashore of Mexico, seeing has fin yaito tunas of several pieces of Radix Et Rhizoma Rhei on a Mexican fisherman's boat, obviously, this was caught by this fisherman. This American businessman can have caught such top-grade fish and has been flattered to this fisherman, and ask how long does it take to catch so much? The fisherman says, time has been caught soon. American businessman asks again: "Then why you do not catch more for a moment, in this way can you catch more fish? "
The fisherman feels very disapproving: "Already enough my whole family's living needs of these fish! "
American businessman asks again: "Then what you are doing in one day, can not it be very boring? "
The fisherman is very surprised: "No, I, will sleep to waking up naturally every day, then go to sea and stress several fish, come back, play with child, sleep pieces of afternoon nap with wife noon, arrive, take village drink some light wine evening, play with the guitar with the friends, sing and sing, is dancing, how could be boring, it is busy again that my day can pass and must substantiate! "
At this moment, but American businessman is disapproving, an idea happened and say to this fisherman: "I am a enterprise management master in Harvard University, I think I can do you a favor! You should spend more time to catch the fish every day, you will have more incomes, and you will just have enough money to buy a bit larger ship then, in this way you can catch more fish naturally, then buy more fishing boats. You are sure to have a fishing boat team to get finally. You needn't sell the fish to a bummaree, but sell to the processing factory directly by the time, in this way you can earn more money to open a tin factory. And you can also get to Mexico, or Los Angeles, even reach New York, expand enterprises there. "
The fisherman has smiled and asked: "How long does this take again? "
American businessman answers: "15 to 20. "
"Then what? "
The American businessman says with a smile greatly: "Then you can stay at home and live in ease and comfort! So long as you are willing, you can announce the stock is listed, sell the share of your company to investment masses. You sent at that time! You can earn by more than several hundred million hundred million! "
"Then what? "
American businessman said: "You can retire by the time! You can move to the small fishing village on the seashore to live in. Sleep to waking up naturally every day, go to sea and catch several fish at will, play with the children, and then sleep with the wife for an afternoon nap, at dusk, shake to the village to drink some small wine, play with the guitar with the friends! "
The saying of Mexican fisherman's doubt: "Am I like this now? "
This story gives us such inspiration: So long as can experience the happiness in life of every day, this world is beautiful. It is here instantly to live, could maximize happiness.
What a kind of mental state but happy, what happy in other words on earth? What no one can say is clear, but one point is definite, happiness is a kind of subjective thought, one's happiness is only a person's happiness, and others are invisible, a person is finally really happy or false happiness at the same time, understand only in this person's one's own heart, others could be understood to some extent only through his behavior and behavior.
Happy reverse side agony, then painful what come? Because people have various needs and desires by birth. These needs and desires are all to hope to be satisfied, it is satisfied and once can not get, will present disparity between ideal and reality, present the agony too after presenting this disparity. So a celebrity has ever said: There are too many desires in this world, just have agony that a desire too much can not be satisfied. After all, the agony is out when not having, exist everywhere, because people's desire has no limits especially, and people are the in more pain, the more just think the happy one valuable, will just go to pursue happily desperately.
Then, should we stop pursuing happily? The answer is not certainly, happiness can be pursued to, the outlet is one, so long as we can be content with one's lot, can live at this moment, experience for now, can be often happy, it is that contentment brings happiness to summarize in a few words.
The content with one's lot person is satisfied with one's own person promptly, they will not go to pursue those to know desire that can not be realized at all perfectly well, and they will be within the desire that can be realized, the struggle for it, unremitting, once the people get asking one's own, happy to rise of itself, at the every previous pieces of step they, the happy intensity will go up to a new stage too, this kind of pursuit of theirs, go reluctant oneself sedulously, go, force oneself, in go to require oneself in the achievable range by oneself, content with one's lot conscientiously, the ones that went to enjoy having calmly alone are happy.
Live in this world full of competitions, there is a frustration, rugged everywhere, even still break the precipice, the agony that such unfortunate life brings is more innumerable, but pursuit on agony we purpose of life, we can simply" food bitter in being bitter, and then had people " ,And put happiness at one's side to ignore. In fact anything can be regarded as " The person has people " ,Is there comparativity between men?
It is one kind that the so-called has people " Unrealistically compare " Psychology is a kind of abnormal psychology derived out through competition, we want to become one " the person have persons " ,Must exceed others in all fields, fight for the first allly, realize one's own all dreams with limited energy with a person. This impossible, this destine us can fail to a great extent, our dream will become visionary hope one day eventually, the result is to enable one's own agony, and still have.. in the least no income.
An western sage says, succeed in having no standard.
It does not mean it is the first, does not mean surmounting all persons either, but has only done strength, has given play to all potentiality, though the result is not still the best, still can yet be regarded as a kind of success. The complicated in society,one can not about,alone stress or pile high above the brim overly, it is a kind of very dangerous state too, " the wooden show, to the forest, the wind must break it " It was such a reason that said. So should think of a happy life, the course is the most important, live at this moment, enjoying can yet be regarded as the realm for one very good life now.
Note:
Several kinds of reasons for enjoying life:
1,Because people are subjects of the life. As life one molecule of subject, who is you unhappy happy, you enjoy who enjoy, should leave all wealth to the offspring, then who is the offspring's wealth left again?
2,Life is for being human and living. There is the mankind, just have the so-called life, so the mankind creates life; Have life too, we could enjoy, so mankind natural suitable person to enjoy life.
3,The mankind is for living and living. The mankind wants the work of efforts, it is better for what has been lived, so we should not give up and originally ask the end, have forgotten being main.
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