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Discuss marriage and love
Love might not cause marriage, have easy to have no chance very, lover can become couple perhaps, have chance withing has no share.

    The marriage of questions, may lose the love because of failing in marriage too before regarding falling in love as; The marriage of questions, may produce the love because the marriage is happy too before not regarding falling in love as. The marriage is involved in love but not inevitably, then there is a marriage of loves, it is in love with having no marriage.
    The love can cause the marriage, but the marriage is not equal to the love, the love only regards sexual love and emotion as the condition, the marriage will regard social factors such as economy, culture custom,etc. as the condition. The love does not explain the wealth number, but the marriage is explained; The love does not explain the social status, but the marriage is explained. For this reason, love can in order to have mutual affinity, heart heart the same, and marriage necessary heart heart cool, the heart heart is sincere.

    The love is the overall show of the truth, good and beauty, and the marriage is the overall show of the human nature. The love justs think of and this social factor of the custom, but the marriage should take all social factors into account. Only when the front and back marriage is when no change will take place greatly in the external condition inside, the love will be happy, the marriage will be happy. On the contrary, love will by happy to turn bitterness into, marriage will by happy to become the agony.
    The condition of the love is mainly appearance, moral standing and knowledge; But the condition of the marriage will add money and position. If only wish eagerly to form the companion's strong emotion between a kind of men and women in love, then will disappear with such strong emotion of realization of the marriage. So the intension with deeper love is to adore each other, have a sentimental attachment for each other, can make the love store in the marriage with development continuously only in this way.
    The succeeding or not of love and marriage, depend on storing and continuing the time and intensity of appeal, this kind of appeal must be mutual but not one-way, this kind of appeal must come from soul but not merely an opposite sex.

    The life of the love depends on one's own vigor, it can exist before the marriage, extend after the marriage, can extend under having state of the marriage too, but disappear after the marriage. The marriage caused by the love if it is happy, prove there is not impurity in the love, the marriage has not gone bad. The marriage caused by the love if it is not happy, explain the love and mix too much sham in the marriage.
    The happy love is single-minded, the happy marriage is single-minded too, the love of the bitterness means saying good-bye, the unfortunate marriage means the lose of the love specificity too. In love initial stage, because forgive, what the other side's shortcoming will change is lovely, get married, because of fight, the other side individual character some difficult to tolerate with whom advantage that oneself does not conform to change too.

    Show bright one instinct of people, weakness of human nature one of too, love whom these kind of weakness of people's can concentrate on expose at time when blazing, the men and women in love will show the true, the good and the beautiful with all strength, cover up false, evil, ugly with the purpose constantly. If the surface covered up is the leading factor one, will conflict then before the love steps into the marriage, a exposed one is the more fast to cover up surfaces, the earlier the fiercer the conflict comes, until the marriage deduces for the full stop.
    Because some people are afraid of losing love, lose the other side, then implement a series of restrictions, having changed the family into a detention house, the marriage has just come into the prison. The love just came into the grave. Envy and suspicious toxic that is love and marriage, monitoring, restriction initiating therefrom, criticizing, chattering, contravening normal love and marriage.

    Love like beautiful fireworks display, it can brief to appear among night sky; The marriage is like the sunflower of the sunshine, not so beautiful, not so romantic, just root and yield positive results quietly.
    When intruding upon your head in love, your head can't generate heat, when the love intrudes upon your soul, your soul can't have no master. The happy marriage is not God's favor, but people's correct choice and result cultivated meticulously. So I think what form love is mainly passion, that form the marriage is mainly character, that form the family is mainly responsibility.

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