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Discuss marriage and love
10:21, 2008-Oct-7
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Discuss marriage and love Love might not cause marriage, have easy to have no chance very, lover can become couple perhaps, have chance withing has no share.
The marriage of questions, may lose the love because of failing in marriage too before regarding falling in love as; The marriage of questions, may produce the love because the marriage is happy too before not regarding falling in love as. The marriage is involved in love but not inevitably, then there is a marriage of loves, it is in love with having no marriage.
The love can cause the marriage, but the marriage is not equal to the love, the love only regards sexual love and emotion as the condition, the marriage will regard social factors such as economy, culture custom,etc. as the condition. The love does not explain the wealth number, but the marriage is explained; The love does not explain the social status, but the marriage is explained. For this reason, love can in order to have mutual affinity, heart heart the same, and marriage necessary heart heart cool, the heart heart is sincere.
The love is the overall show of the truth, good and beauty, and the marriage is the overall show of the human nature. The love justs think of and this social factor of the custom, but the marriage should take all social factors into account. Only when the front and back marriage is when no change will take place greatly in the external condition inside, the love will be happy, the marriage will be happy. On the contrary, love will by happy to turn bitterness into, marriage will by happy to become the agony.
The condition of the love is mainly appearance, moral standing and knowledge; But the condition of the marriage will add money and position. If only wish eagerly to form the companion's strong emotion between a kind of men and women in love, then will disappear with such strong emotion of realization of the marriage. So the intension with deeper love is to adore each other, have a sentimental attachment for each other, can make the love store in the marriage with development continuously only in this way.
The succeeding or not of love and marriage, depend on storing and continuing the time and intensity of appeal, this kind of appeal must be mutual but not one-way, this kind of appeal must come from soul but not merely an opposite sex.
The life of the love depends on one's own vigor, it can exist before the marriage, extend after the marriage, can extend under having state of the marriage too, but disappear after the marriage. The marriage caused by the love if it is happy, prove there is not impurity in the love, the marriage has not gone bad. The marriage caused by the love if it is not happy, explain the love and mix too much sham in the marriage.
The happy love is single-minded, the happy marriage is single-minded too, the love of the bitterness means saying good-bye, the unfortunate marriage means the lose of the love specificity too. In love initial stage, because forgive, what the other side's shortcoming will change is lovely, get married, because of fight, the other side individual character some difficult to tolerate with whom advantage that oneself does not conform to change too.
Show bright one instinct of people, weakness of human nature one of too, love whom these kind of weakness of people's can concentrate on expose at time when blazing, the men and women in love will show the true, the good and the beautiful with all strength, cover up false, evil, ugly with the purpose constantly. If the surface covered up is the leading factor one, will conflict then before the love steps into the marriage, a exposed one is the more fast to cover up surfaces, the earlier the fiercer the conflict comes, until the marriage deduces for the full stop.
Because some people are afraid of losing love, lose the other side, then implement a series of restrictions, having changed the family into a detention house, the marriage has just come into the prison. The love just came into the grave. Envy and suspicious toxic that is love and marriage, monitoring, restriction initiating therefrom, criticizing, chattering, contravening normal love and marriage.
Love like beautiful fireworks display, it can brief to appear among night sky; The marriage is like the sunflower of the sunshine, not so beautiful, not so romantic, just root and yield positive results quietly.
When intruding upon your head in love, your head can't generate heat, when the love intrudes upon your soul, your soul can't have no master. The happy marriage is not God's favor, but people's correct choice and result cultivated meticulously. So I think what form love is mainly passion, that form the marriage is mainly character, that form the family is mainly responsibility.
No matter the woman will regret to marry everyone
10:01, 2008-Oct-7
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No matter the woman will regret to marry everyone Marry everyone and regret, we can only keep the marriage of all customs.
I often think, what kind of man the woman is married could have neither enmity nor repentance for all one's life, is heart often full of convinced feeling beautiful?
Marry the rich man
The food has fish, get off car, the luxurious villa, the beautiful clothes of clothing of silk, gorgeously dressed and richly ornamented, the secret fragrance fills the air, should this kind of day be very good? However, the man earns money to need the time and energy, the rich man is not the businessman haggling over every penny, the dignitary that is busy treating with courtesy. The businessman's brain is full of interests, calculate and are put into and produce every day, scarce and warm.
The horse of that department of river state a lot of years before has already seen through this kind of man's essence - -The huge profit is taken leave of lightly. Dignitary full of relation in the brain of man, with who does it weigh every day near, with who far, lack tenderness. The rich man often has no time, will treat the woman coldly on one side. Marry this kind of man's woman, mean marrying to the television, is married to the beauty parlor, want, stand spiritual inanition for a long time, have in vain one surface magnificent, who knows there is the bitterness of heart?
Marry the leisured man
Someone accompanies every day, he has few thing, has a good memory, your birthday, your marriage commemoration day, even on your mother's birthday, he will remember being clear. He goes home on time every day, cooks the dish well, would like to accompany you to stroll in the market, can educate children very well. You live a life among his surrounding every day, not be sorry?
No, this kind of man often has limited ability, without much money, your necessary innumerable trials and tribulations fight with him, could obtain a food and clothing life. See other woman enjoy a high position and live in ease and comfort, more than 40 face handsome and beautiful still, 10 mean finely and finely, and you are at a young age, already the skin has been coarse, jade hands are out of shape, will be unreconciled to - -How are others Yes married one " The diamond man " ,Why did oneself marry the rotten iron of a broken copper? Leisured man's happy page:
Will say the man with a soft streak to marry
Your mood will be extremely happy, this kind of man is clever and careful, good at finding the woman's beauty. You have changed a hairdo, change a garment, even change a kind of lipstick, he will find in time, and will praise at once. He will praise your transparent earlobe creatively, praises your perfectly round ankle, you will carry in this kind of feeling appreciated away - -Because you yourself have not found that some are beautiful.
However, you should be sober, this kind of man is very good at finding the beauty of other women besides you. He will speak honeyed words to a lot of women, you know you whether severalth hear he with a soft streak person even. This kind of man is very dangerous, will hold up several times " coloured flag " outside once being not careful ,And others on the emotion " Divide a cup of custard " ,You knew heart and are full of agony and shame.
Marry the sincere and clumsy and slow man
Though you can rest assured, he is loyal and devoted to you, do not have disloyalty at all, can absolutely be for not looking sideways to the beauty brushing past at one's side.
However, this kind of man is often terribly obtuse, you have changed the shoes of a pair of new style for one week, he has not found; You ask him scribble getting pink nail polish nail polish fine fine or lilac, he can one face ignorant usually. Marrying this kind of man who lacks the temperament and interest, you will think one's own women's beauty perform practically no function.
You can say, marry, give rich to have unoccupied also, have temperament and interest for unswervingly loyal man perhaps, it is sure not to regret. It is like this, however, there is no such a perfect man in this world. Even have, we can not mix either - -It is not perfect enough either because of ourselves.
So marry everyone regret we can only observe one all marriage of custom, everyone can't escape by luck - -Because we are all faulty persons. This is very helpless, but this is life.
Regret perhaps no one is not married. Do not regret, however, lonely - -As to woman, this is more terrible than to regret.
Summer nourish heart
11:37, 2008-Jul-30
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Summer nourish heart Life has four seasons, have four seasons in one year, " loss of appetite and weight in summer " Change in " happy summer " It is a key to nourish heart. Having left hospital and gone home for a few days, because it is hot in summer, a lot of trivial bits branches added, the job placement that worried that predominant, does not go bmw gt1| benz star| to work in the unoccupied cavity in the heart at home, toss and turn occasionally, sad and hidden, consume heart-yang. Husband and family restrain me from surf the Net, this let me have a sense of failing in love, carry on a clandestine love affair fast a little even more, it is the most tired season of heart, I should nourish heart especially.
In time recuperating, the mind is easy to be upset each time, thus it is not peaceful to present the mind, vexed and irascible. It will make the heartbeat accelerate, aggravate the heart burden that vexed. Some things have some people, the federation broadcasts directly and shows in the heart continuously the samely like TV series, receive and stand by force. So, let the heart become quiet in hot summer and as the saying goes, it is " calm and cool naturally " . Grow quietly overcastly, the negative and positive is coordinated, could maintain the good heart. So, how quiet to summer want!
Quiet, the pure mind is difficult. The son called at noon the day before yesterday, interrogated me why not tell the truth to him, infringe his power in the know, let him very stamp with rage. However, and then, the telephone is stewed continuously for affection, make me very excited, " the woman with the little lover is very happy to sigh with deep feeling very much! " . Getting quiet to come off duty, come, see I in afternoon, we make an appointment, go to have dinner, wipe out have a chat, not meeting for a long time, it is so great to change each other. Recognize she going to marry good news, she is very busy among the obscure words in her. Go to work and fit up the bridal chamber, rush about riding the electronic bicycle, people are yellow and thin, seeing the regret of loving. Immediately, the sense that the five flavours bottle is overturned in the heart quietly rises of itself, feel bad very much. Chinese medicine thinks, " pass and like to be sad " ,So it want I good at mood of regulating,especially can't great sorrows with great rejoicing.
Not keeping sad without being liked, summer close the eyes for rest more. The persons who say are easy, make sure difficult. To construct is more blissfully than to receive. Buddhism Lip river nurse, famous psychologist of Germany (Erich Fromm) Say in this book of " art that likes ": "Unripe love, the principle followed is ' because I am loved by others, I love others '. Ripe love, the principle followed is 'High pressure pumps| Mud pumps| Slush Pumps| Piston Pumps| Reciprocating Pumps| Water Injection Pumps| Steam Injection Pumps| Metering Pumps| Double Screw Pumps| Pressure testing Pumps| Oilfield Skid Mounted Pumps because I love others, I am loved by others '. " It seems that there is not difference, in fact have a long way to go in the middle. We require others offer what it will be we, want oneself give what it will be someone else only often. Real happiness might not be exceeded by the people, so there is a word in Christianity: "To construct is more blissfully than to receive. " Wake up, close the eyes for rest, get rid of the distracing thought in quiet attention.
Summer sit quietly, thinking has no distracing thought, fit quietly supernaturally. I think, the mood and health influence each other; High mood is enough to stimulate the latent energy of the body; Low mood, the health enough to be listless and strong; If want to be healthy, there is joyful mood first. Sit quietly with the refined custom, " vulgar " Popular, only common, but very vulgar here with the same thing, but may be very refined in another's place. For example " fertile " " thin " These two words are very vulgar, but " the green manure is red and thin " , " it is thin to reveal the dense flower " ,But Li Qingzhao can use very refinedly. There is " break " The word thought very vulgar, but " the broken moon of cloud the flower comes to make the shadowed " , " guide the cherry to break temporarily " ,Xian Zhang and but main fact can use very refined behind the Li, so refined custom have, absolutely, sit quietly even absolutely. Sit quietly summer, the wise sit chrysanthemum, getting foolish to sit and stone, life, need, avoid, liven up sometimes, it is noisy to keep away from, sat quietly under tree shade, sat quietly in front of the computer, listened to the melodious music, looked at beautiful picture and text.
It is slow to nourish heart in summer. I am good at understanding this slow word, I am a chronic patient, it is hot, the blood circulation is accelerated, the easy over-stress of heart, therefore summer will nourish heart slowly. Husband, friend, colleague make me to be tired, I natural. Only the heart slows down, it is so slow as to come down to breathe.Electronic Manufacturing| Electronic Manufacturing Services| China Electronic Manufacturer| Electronics Manufacturer| Electronics Manufacturing China| China Electronics Manufacturers| Smt Electronic Manufacturing| Electronics Contract Manufacturing| Electronic Contract Manufacturing Services| Subcontract Pcb Assembly Want rhythm of life of slowing down have a rest, make heartbeat slow down, the respiratory rate is reduced, the rhythm of the life activity is slowed down, the heart could have a rest. At this moment, here, here, at this moment, whether my heart slow down, my heart has had a rest, I know between you and me.
Do not " shoulder this life " ," it was born in that He rejoiced today " ! Summer nourish heart, time has been already slipping by constantly, turn into " loss of appetite and weight in summer " For " happy summer " .
Grief liking to be beautiful
11:06, 2008-Jul-30
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Grief liking to be beautiful Meeting a not best friend on the way home on the first the second, she saw I immediately very exaggerative " Ah " .
Originally thought she would have any surprising language next, unexpectedly, unexpectedly she said: "Just disappearing in half a month, you are wicked, much blacker. "
I Haha to smile, the purpose that do not think, run back and forth, by summer on and off duty every day, it will be black naturally.
In fact, actually this was an insignificant trifle thing, it was right and proper that the woman liked to be beautiful, comment on and leave black-and-white fatly and thinly, boring a topic while striking up a conversation with too. Just, overly pay attention to the woman whose appearance even overly pays attention to other woman's appearance and can only say that superficial.
Today, meet the friend again at QQ, head of her shake as what was stopped, repeated a few words, "you are really wicked! " "Should pay attention to preventing suntan! " "What brand of sunblock lotion is used? " "The woman must maintain, it is good that the XX brand cosmetics result that I use is extraordinary. "
See so that my brow is wrinkled directly. I am not a other recluse generation, the cosmetics use some too naturally. Tin Box China Tin Cans Dvd Box Wholesale Tin Containers Tin Can ManufactoryCd Box Supplier Metal Tin Box Manufacture Tin Box For Food Leather Handbag Pet Carrier Leather handbagsStand she such surprised posture really just, seem to darken, become one difficult fault that forgive I.
I am random " Oh" Burn, does not want to take notice of her. But she has not found out my indifference obviously, has continued the painstaking beauty experience of explaining her, only show off one's own natural beauty. Originally want to refute two sentences of hers too, think better of and think, take a lot of explaining more for this kind of thing, it is boring enough too. Then, leaving her to continue flying sideways in a foam, I no longer examine carefully.
And does not say whether this friend of mine is really beautiful, a woman, if only there is appearance that can be brought and shown off, that is really big grief. Real beauty, mind, born, mind, decorate still more, a real one by inside. The chest has the Book of Sangs and the Book of History angry from China, I acknowledge inheriting the difference that the face skin had have level innately from parents, do not want to obliterate the magical efficiency of the cosmetics either, just the refined makings burst forth by head with learned intelligence, it is the beauty of the woman who is most worth appreciating.
I have a sense of loving to make up and wearing beautiful clothes too. However, it is fools that the ones that have only paid attention to the physical beauty and neglected the thought are inevitable. Take, put on gay clothing and powder one's face, come until whom oneself make gaudily dressed the vase host of time every day.
Complete collections of cosmetic method of honey
11:16, 2008-Jun-25
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Complete collections of cosmetic method of honey (Handbag Manufacturer)Honey is very good natural cosmetics, in the beauty and make-up, it can either take be for external use orally or, honey can not merely improve the human nutritional status, promote the metabolism of skin, strengthen vigor of the skin and antibacterial strength, reduce pigmentation, prevent the skin from being dry, make the skin soft, pure white, fine and smooth, and can reduce the production of wrinkles. Then how do we come to utilize honey to improve looks? The method that we have collected some honey and improved looks is for everybody's reference.
One of cosmetology of honey: Honey, yoghurt are one respectively, appropriate amount of flour. Mix it to make the lotion of surface evenly, apply surface and shank, after doing completely naturally, and then wipe cleaning lightly with the wet towel. This can make the skin clean and fine and smooth, reduce wrinkles.
Two of cosmetology of honey: 20 grams of honey, bee's grain is 20 grams. Mix the two evenly, scribble on the face in morning and evening of every day, this can reduce wrinkle, strengthen the skin elasticity.
Three of cosmetology of honey: 50 grams of honey, 150 grams of blue and green duckweed. Go impurity blue and green duckweed, clean, dry, grind superfine the end to, add honey transfer into ointment, scribble in the surface before going to bed every night, go with warm water washing in early morning of next day. This side is suitable for freckles, acnes.
Four of cosmetology of honey: Fetch right amount of fresh ginger stretch put into cup, soak five to add with 210- 300 boiled water right amount of honey stir, act as ink is drunk after the ten minutes, can dispel senile plaque.
Five of cosmetology of honey: Honey Forth Five-Year Plan Period gram, two slices leaves of the pakchoi. Come out leaf crush, mix, mix with honey even, filter, entangle juice with gauze, dip in the juice and scribble gently on the whole with cotton wool in morning and evening of every day, massage several minutes more, then go with warm water washing. Can get rid of acne.
Six of cosmetology of honey: 200 grams of honey, leaf of loquat is 500 grams. Add the leaf of the loquat 8000 grams of water, fry and boil for three hours, filter and remove slag, continue heating and make into the thick lotion, add honey and even, suffering accepts the lotion. Obey 15 each time Pet Carrier, two times a day, warm boiled water hand over the clothes. This side is suitable for the acne patient.
Seven of cosmetology of honey: Honey, Sang Shan are 300 grams respectively. Crowd the mulberry fruit the juice, strain in the ceramic ware with the gauze, the slow fire is boiled into the lotion, add honey to mix, take once every day, one or two soup spoons each time, the boiled water adjusts the clothes. This can take place and maintain the skin darkly, is suitable for the for a long time white one of hair.
Cosmetology of honey: A soup spoon of honey, half a cup of milk. Mix it evenly, rub on the head with this mixed solution after finishing washing, clean after after 15 minutes, can make the oil of hair black and shiny.
Nine of cosmetology of honey: Ten grams of honey, big rice group. Wipe on the face once the big rice first, and then clean with the fresh water, then apply honey on the face evenly, wash 20 minutes later, go on once every the third, this can brighten reducing wrinkle, soft skin.
Ten of cosmetology of honey: Honey, tomato are each 200 grams, clean the tomato and mash to squeeze juice, mix the juice with honey to mix, wash behind the face scribbling on face, every 2 day 1 evenly. , lubricated, delicate, brightens, gloss that this can make the skin strong.
11 of cosmetology of honey: A spoon of honey, 2 spoons of fresh milk, mix the two evenly, daub it on the skin, can prevent the skin from wearing out.
12 of cosmetology of honey: 50 grams of honey, 15 ml of claret. Mix the two evenly, wash the face early and late every day, apply the face, hand. This can care skin, raise skin, reduce wrinkle, improve looks, maintain the skin happy color.
13 of cosmetology of honey: 20 grams of honey, 20 ml of vinegar, Handmade Jewelry=>Tin Box=>Imitation Jewelrymix the two to heat the boiled water to take, 2-3 times a day, this side maintains the skin on soft skin function, suitable for the coarse one of skin.
The trouble is that since the heart has been formed
10:11, 2008-Jun-1
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The trouble is that since the heart has been formed Flash DriveEveryone will have a trouble. And there are the troubles analogous to a part, in fact all suffer from one's own actions. Worried spoken parts in an opera, but a person's heart forms. And this kind of heart forms, frequently, can come to regulate adjustment oneself. USB Drive
If say, people can put one's own psychology in a correct place, everything can all be with a kind of optimistic and positive and upward attitude of conduction in society, go dare at way of life expose to wind and rain, difficult gully, then, worried can conscientious a automatic one leave.
However, it is easy to say, it is very difficult to do. When the trouble comes to get by people, people have to make 120,000 points of spirit, go to face the harassment of this worried uninvited guest. Then optimistic person, can fall down with one day, Yao Ming comrade and carry psychology than oneself pieces of high person, go to come so one or two times for oneself, reason of 0.2 kilograms of a thousand pieces of gold, easy, like falling into the sense of loss produced in valley bottom abyss from the standing of 3,000 feet all of a sudden, lowest, coming has no shadow to have no track.
Talk about here, people seem to already spy on from it too, so long as can be with a kind of correct understanding and attitude, fully realize: Worried production, but formed by the heart that oneself produces. It is well said that, whoever started the trouble should end it. So long as can produce the worried heart to form and open, then, even if the nothing more huge one will be worried in the future, can unquestionably fly far and high from then on in the locality smoothly, people can have easily, pure, peaceful happy fairyland from then on too. mp4 players
Open the method that the worried heart forms, there are many kinds. But produce effects fastest, it is the most common, no more than: Relax all over, what huge thing has taken place no matter at the moment, don't be worried, go to think to the good place in everything.
Once find one's own state of mind, have it while developing towards agitated or gloomy direction, set up Matthew's exactly one's own mood. Like picking up and can make oneself produce the powerful and unconstrained style to pick up as soon as possible, the reverie of the bright life of future. It let pigeons white that hover fly away it is one's own soul it is happy,can unquestionably must and in staying before not staying in a flash in the heart, agitated, worried bad mood, strangle in the cradle fast.
Only people are on the basis of safeguarding keeping one's own relaxed happy good mood, cheap mp3 playerswith a kind of relaxation, optimistic, the positive and healthy philosophy of life, go to face all irrigation canals and ditches thistles and thorns during the journey in life, really put down the name, profit, work, name, wealth, right, rich, expensive worried heart that brings. The psychology is relaxed. Then, worried and sure to be far away from people, and farther and farther
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